The Divorce of Krisdayanti, one of diva in Indonesia

Relationship between two human beings always have the dynamics. Sometimes beautiful, often too annoying. Like the story of one household top musicians in this country, Anang Hermansyah and Krisdayanti, which is always absorbing. Tidal wedding KD-Anang, which unfortunately have resulted in divorce.

Krisdayanti a 21-year-old was married to Anang Hermansyah on August 22, 1996 earlier. At that time the young musicians wedding surprised many parties. You could say their love story is not too much media attention.

Both at the time, especially KD has not become a top musician with a salary of hundreds of millions to billions of rupiah. KD and Anang wedding was blessed with 2 children, Titania Aurelie Hermansyah (12) and Azriel Akbar Hermansyah (10).

KD and Anang got out of the album sung together as proof of their love scene. Albums Cinta in 1996, made Anang as a gift for an invitation that came to their wedding. After ten years of marriage and a duet in five albums, love the way they finally made an album titled Sepuluh Tahun Pertama. Album containing 14 songs, 11 songs taken from their fifth album, the duo who had been around and three songs are new songs.

Not forever wedding KD - Anang like smooth highway. Gossip affair several times upon the couple. Infidelity is often a target directed to Krisdayanti.

The names of men like Dicky Wahyudi, Ari Sigit, Yovie Widianto to steal the most caring, talented guitarist Indonesia, Tohpati. Gossip is not always just fiction. Although not yet proven, undeniable love affair gossip that makes the relationship KD and Anang tenuous.

Moreover, in her book, 'My Life, My Secret' written by Alberthiene Endah, KD tells if Anang ever intended to divorce her.

"I was talak two in years ago, but not because Tohpati," KD said when met at the launch of his book 'Catatan Hati Krisdayanti: My Life, My Secret' at Grand Indonesia Shopping Town, Jl. MH. MH. Thamrin, Central Jakarta, Thursday (16/7/2009) ago.

Not only affair that became a thorn in their marriage, KD against drug addiction had become a serious test for both.

Still in her book, KD admitted to having a user psychotropic type shabu-shabu in the past period 1998-1999. Anang even has caught chanter 'I'm Sorry Goodbye' was the withdrawal sakaw.

"At that time I was at the peak of his career. I'm starring in sinetron stripping. At that time my footing weak. Anang immediately angry and crying stupidity by me," she recalls.

But the strength of their love, the presence of children, a towering career and support their friends seem to help households KD and Anang survived the storm.

Unfortunately after 13 years of fostering households, Anang on August 19, 2009 or 3 days before Ramadan, said the word divorce to Krisdayanti. Said divorce that according KD is not only spoken once.

What is the reason Anang, until now not clear. But Anang implies that KD is worth responsible for their divorce. The decision Anang to divorce KD is also based on encouragement from his daughter, Aurel.

"That I know all these problems from Aurel. She who encouraged me to end it all. Because she had told, yes please. She also strengthen me to stay strong," said Anang at interview Tabloid Bintang edition Sunday of the fifth in August 2009 as quoted detikhot Tuesday (1/9/2009).

Ramadan & Lebaran

Idul Fitri, more commonly referred to in Indonesia as Lebaran, is the celebration that comes at the end of the Muslim month of fasting, Ramadhan. The Arabic meaning of Idul Fitri is “becoming holy again”.

The dates of the ninth month of the Muslim calendar, Ramadan, vary from year to year, as the Muslim calendar (Hijrah) is based on a lunar cycle of 29 or 30 days. The exact date is determined by the sighting of the new moon. These lunar calculations lead to an official announcement by the government on the eve of Ramadan and Idul Fitri so that the faithful know when to begin and end the fasting month. In 2009, Lebaran will fall on 21-22 September, with "collective leave" on September 18 & 23, 2009
Ramadhan

To understand the significance of Lebaran, an understanding about the fasting month of Ramadhan is important. During the month of Ramadhan, Muslims must refrain from eating, drinking, smoking, marital relations or getting angry during the daylight hours. In addition, those fasting are supposed to refrain from bad habits - lying, getting angry, using bad language as well as to be more diligent in prayer and give to charities. It is believe that fasting heightens spirituality and develops self-control.

The fast begins in the morning just before sunrise, at Imsak, and is broken at maghrib which falls at sunset. Fasting during the month of Ramadhan is one of the five pillars of Islam and an obligation for devout Muslims.

Those who are expected to fast include: adults (defined as those who have reached the age of puberty) and those who are sane. Those who are not expected to fast include: children, women having their period, travelers, the sick, those with long-term illnesses, pregnant or breastfeeding women and the mentally ill.

The faithful who fast awaken early in the morning to have a meal before subuh. In order to awaken the faithful, the call to prayer is sounded from neighborhood mosques. In addition, groups of young boys walk around neighborhoods beating on drums and other noise makers to awaken the faithful.

The breaking of the fast at sunset is a very social occasion for which special foods are prepared for gatherings with family or friends. Upon hearing the sound of the bedug drum on the television or the call to prayer from the neighborhood mosque at sunset, the faithful know it's time to break their fast, or buka puasa. This is usually done with a very sweet drink and sweet snacks. Maghrib prayers are made before a full meal is served. Taraweh prayers are held in neighborhood mosques and at gatherings every evening at about 7:30 p.m. These prayers are not compulsory, but they are enjoyed by many.

The schedule for Imsak and Maghrib is posted in major newspapers and on the television throughout Indonesia, as well as published in handouts by major religious organizations.

While it is expected that people will keep to their normal activities during the fast, needless to say the lack of liquid and food during the day and the unusual sleep and meal schedule soon take their toll. After the first week you may see that sleep and food deprivation cause those fasting to have reduced energy levels as well as finding it more difficult to concentrate on tasks.
Why does Islam oblige its followers to fast during Ramadhan each year?

* To develop compassion for the poor and needy who feel hungry every day.
* As a spiritually and physically cleansing experience. Just as in other world religions, fasting is seen as an opportunity to separate yourself from the things of this world and to concentrate on your relationship with God.
* To become closer to God by contemplating his will in your life.
* To build self-discipline and to become a better person.

How does Ramadhan affect expatriates?

* The overall pace of life overall slows down. Things take longer to get accomplished both at home and at the office.
* Your live-in household staff will arise very early in the morning to prepare their pre-dawn meal and many try to complete their heavy chores early in the morning just after they've eaten . If their pre-sunrise noise is bothering your family, talk with your staff to see how they can reduce their noise levels while your family is still asleep.
* Your household staff may need a nap mid-morning or in the afternoon to keep pace with their altered sleeping and eating schedules.
* Muslims that may not normally be diligent in observing the obligatory five prayers a day, may begin to pray regularly during this time, necessitating their absence from work for about 10-15 minutes.
* It would be best to schedule difficult tasks before or after Ramadhan to achieve your workers best efforts.
* Your cook will not be able to taste the foods she is cooking for you.
* Your driver will appreciate it if you can let him break the fast in the car with a drink of water and a sweet snack, if he is driving you home at sunset.
* Food vendors and some restaurants close during the day and some restaurants stop serving alcohol. The government closes night entertainment centers during the beginning and end of Ramadhan and shortens their hours throughout the month. You won't have any trouble finding seating at restaurants throughout Jakarta for lunch, but dinner may be more difficult. Buffets catering to those breaking their fast at sunset offer a delicious array of Indonesian specialties.
* You may be awoken early in the morning by the enthusiastic young people parading through the neighborhood (DON'T tell them to be quiet! This would be extremely offensive, just quietly endure.)
* Food prices rise dramatically as Lebaran nears.
* Your household staff will want to take one to two weeks off to visit their family in the village and you'll be left to cope without a cook, driver, watchman and helpers. Consequently, restaurants do a brisk trade during this period as families eat out more often than usual.
* A one-month bonus is commonly paid to all household staff and salaried employees in offices and factories near the end of the fasting month. This is referred to as THR (tay-ha-err) Tunjangan Hari Raya, or bulan ketigabelas - the 13th month.
* An increased level of patience and tolerance is required when dealing with workers who are fasting.
* Do not speak harshly with those fasting as if they get angry or have negative feelings towards others it invalidates their fasting for that day.
* Traffic jams from the afternoon rush hour start earlier as many office workers leave earlier than usual to break the fast with family and friends.
* It's difficult to schedule travel in Indonesia near the end of Ramadhan due to the annual exodus of millions of city dwellers to their hometowns.
* You may feel uncomfortable eating or drinking before your fasting staff/friends. It would be considerate to refrain from eating or drinking in front of others that are fasting.
* Your neighborhood association may organize a charitable drive for the poor in your neighborhood. Give to this drive as a gesture of good faith and your membership in the local community.
* You'll notice a big increase in beggars at traffic lights as the poor flock into the city from the villages at this traditional time of heightened charity giving.
* You will notice a growing excitement amongst your Muslim friends, colleagues and staff as Lebaran approaches and they make plans for their special celebration.

Lebaran

At the end of the month of Ramadhan and its special religious observance is the Eid holiday, called Idul Fitri or Lebaran in Indonesia. In Indonesia, this is the time when Muslims visit their family and friends to ask for forgiveness for any wrongs they have committed in the previous year. They express this wish in the phrase “Mohon Maaf Lahir Batin” which means "forgive me from the bottom of my heart/soul for my wrongdoings in the past year". A traditional Arabic (Muslim) greeting for the Eid celebrations is also commonly used in Indonesia "Minal Aidin Wal Fa Idzin", which is expressed upon meeting friends and family during the festive days. Traditional foods are consumed, family and friends gather to ask forgiveness and exchange greetings, new clothing is worn, children receive gifts of money and visits are made to recreational parks -- all to celebrate the successful completion of the fasting month. On Java, prior to the start of the fasting month (but not during it), visits are made to the graves of family ancestors (nyekar) to pay respects, clean the grave and leave flowers, causing major traffic jams near all major cemeteries.

Idul Fitri begins with mass prayer gatherings early in the morning at mosques, open fields, parks and on major streets. It is an amazing sight to see rows of hundreds of Muslim women all dressed in their mukena (white, head-to-toe prayer gowns) performing the synchronized prayer ritual. Muslim men tend to wear sarong, traditional shirts and peci hats to Idul Fitri morning prayers. On the walk home from the mass prayers, quick visits are made to friends in the neighborhood to ask for forgiveness.

Following the morning prayers and neighborhood visits, visits are made to close family members around town. Family members go to their parents first and then to the most senior relative's house (oldest person in the family) to “Mohon Maaf ...” with family members. Then depending on your age/status in the family, you visit aunts and uncles homes to do the same. At each house drinks and cookies or snacks are served, and since it is very impolite to refuse the food, by the end of the day you are so full you can hardly move. These customs may entail several days of visiting relatives and often there will be a gathering of family members at the senior-most relative's house.

Employees may also visit the homes of their senior bosses in the company or critical business colleagues and government officials to "Mohon Maaf ... " after their family visits are completed. In Jakarta, these customs entail days and days of visiting relatives and colleagues resulting in a great time of family reunions and upset to normal working/living schedules. Many people also take the opportunity of the Lebaran holiday to visit recreational parks.

While gathering with family, it is customary for the adults to give the young children some money ... they may meet you at the door shaking their wallets! It is also customary to distribute money to children in the poor neighborhoods around your home, Rp 500 or 1,000 per child will bring huge smiles to their faces!

In Jakarta neighborhoods there may also be organized fun and games sponsored by local businesses ... including climbing a greased pole to try to get to the prizes on the top called panjat pinang. A fun site to see!

Strongly held traditions to visit family at this time necessitate the exodus of 3 1/2 million (yes million!) people from Jakarta alone, as well as additional millions from other urban centers, to rural villages and hometowns for the Lebaran holiday. The logistics of this exodus cause headaches for the government each year. During this period the streets in Jakarta are nearly empty as the population decreases by nearly one third. The hardships and inconveniences endured by the travelers in overcrowded buses, trains and cars is unbelievable, yet they feel that this is a small price to pay to spend the holidays with their family and friends. Traditionally these urban dwellers come bearing gifts or money earned during the previous year for their family.

They often return from the exodus accompanied by relatives and friends looking for work in the cities, furthering the pressures of urbanization. The government attempts to prevent the “socially undesirable” such as beggars, vagrants and others from migrating to the cites, but the task is overwhelming.

During the weeks after Lebaran many groups hold halal bilhalal gatherings where employees from a company, friends, colleagues or members of an organization gather to share a meal and ask each other's forgiveness. Non-Muslims are often invited to participate in these festive gatherings also.
Various Traditions Associated with Ramadhan and Lebaran

Bazaar/Pasar Amal Organized by various civic, charitable and neighborhood organizations, goods are sold at discounted prices to help the poor celebrate the holidays with new clothing and special foods.

Bedug Lebaran The traditional bedug drums are beat at maghrib to notify the faithful that it is time to break the fast. Starting on the evening of the last day of Ramadhan and continuing throughout the night and into the following day, the bedug are also beaten in the takbiran celebrations either in stationary locations, or in parades through the streets. Takbiran is the prayer and celebration heralding the Idul Fitri holiday. Loud and boisterous parades and celebrations are held throughout the entire nation, which includes drum beating accompanied by amplified prayer and lively Islamic music.

Bingkisan Lebaran Elaborately wrapped parcels are given by business colleagues or associates to Muslims in the week prior to Lebaran. They are usually arranged in a rattan or wood basket and contain food, small household appliances or dishes.

Buka Puasa Breaking the fast, the meal at sunset.

Busana Muslim Fashionable Muslim apparel worn for festive occasions such as Lebaran.

Kartu Lebaran Many people send greeting cards to their Muslim friends (whether they themselves are Muslim or not). For sale in shops throughout the city, Lebaran card designs should not depict people or animals. Geometric designs, mosques, traditional textiles or ketupat are common. Most cards have the date of 1 Syawal 141_ H written on the card. You need to fill in the appropriate year in the space. In 2009, the Hijrah year is 1430, in 2010 will be 1431, etc. Calligraphy artists design specialized cards for customers on sidewalks near post offices and major market areas.

Ketupat Traditionally eaten at Lebaran, the rhomboid-shaped ketupat casing is made of young coconut frond leaves that are still light green in color. Intricately woven by nimble fingered experts who can complete the weaving in 10 seconds, they are sold to the public at pasar (traditional markets) in bunches. The ketupat are filled with uncooked rice then steamed and left to cool before serving. The coconut leaf casing gives a unique flavor to the rice, one always associated with Lebaran. The ketupat is cut open, removed from the casing and cut into small chunks, then served with various accompanying vegetable and meat dishes (opor and sambal goreng), often cooked in spicy coconut milk.

Korma Dates from Iraq, Tunisia, the US and Saudi Arabia make their annual appearance in markets and supermarkets for the breaking of the fast.

Mudik The term for the exodus of millions of people from the urban centers to the villages in order to celebrate the Idul Fitri holiday with family and friends in the village. In 2009 government estimates the movement of people around the archipelago at 16,3 million people! This is a strongly held tradition and travelers happily endure a lot of hardships and inconveniences in overcrowded cars, buses and trains with seasonally inflated prices.

Puasa Fasting

Sungkem The Javanese custom of asking for forgiveness at Idul Fitri which demonstrates the respect given by young people to the family elders. The young person kneels and bows their head to the elders' knees and asks for forgiveness.

Santunan Ramadhan Donations to a charitable organization for distribution to the poor and needy at Lebaran.

Sembayang or shalat Ritual prayers that must be made five times each day by Muslims.

Takbiran The prayer celebration on the evening of the last day of Ramadhan, to herald in the Idul Fitri holiday. Chants are praised to Allah, drums are beat endlessly, dances, songs, religious prayers and sermons are given in public displays of excitement and praise.

Zakat The obligatory poor tax that is paid by Muslims during the Lebaran period. Zakat should total 2.5% of one's income, depending on the nature of the gift. Zakat is paid to charitable organizations, neighborhood groups or through direct distribution to the poor and needy in the neighborhood. Zakat tax is deductible in Indonesia; the funds can be deducted from your gross income before figuring taxes.

Noordin M. Top die

KEPUH SARI: Armed Indonesian police stormed an Islamic militant hideout early Thursday in a raid that killed fugitive terror mastermind Noordin Mohammed Top and three other militants, police said.

Noordin's body was among four recovered after the early morning raid on a village house in Central Java, national police chief Bambang Hendarso Danuri told reporters, bringing to an end an exhaustive six-year manhunt.

"From national police doctors' examinations, antemortem (investigations) and finger prints sent by Malaysian police, thank God on this holy month of Ramadan... it's Noordin M Top," Danuri said to applause.

Loud explosions and gunfire were heard as police raided the rented house at around sunrise after a nine-hour siege on the outskirts of Solo city, a stronghold of the Jemaah Islamiyah (JI) radical network.

The raid left the simple house in the lush, densely populated region a burnt-out shell.

President Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono said the death of Noordin and that of an ally, Malaysian bomb expert Azhari Husin, killed by police on Java in 2005, did not mean the end of the militant threat.

"The crippling of these two terrorists in Southeast Asia does not mean all cells working in Indonesia have all been paralysed," he said.

"That's why we must continue to be vigilant and prepare for steps to tackle, optimally prevent and continue to hunt down terrorist leaders, their networks and prominent fugitives."

Police chief Danuri said forces from an elite unit known as Special Detachment 88 launched the raid after interrogating two Noordin acolytes arrested nearby on Wednesday afternoon.

"Despite repeated warnings to surrender there was a firefight. A motorcycle was hit, caught fire and they took refuge by huddling in the bathroom," Danuri said.

Blackberry in Indonesia

According to Jakarta Globe, Indonesia would ban the import of new BlackBerry phones until RIM set up their local after-sales service department. A spokesman for the Indonesian government GatotSDewabroto said that the Communications and Information Technology Department had informed mobile phone importers and operators about this.

However, Gatot added that this ban was limited to the new Blackberry models and the blackberries which had got import permission could go on selling.

Aditalrawat, Vice President of the Communication Department of Indonesia’s second largest telecom operator PTIndosatTbk, claimed that their company was planning to cooperate with the government to introduce blackberry phones of CDMA standard. “However, we also support government’s decision that RIM should open branch department in Indonesia. This will help cut cost and lower prices.”

After a long arguing around 2 weeks finally Research in Motion, commonly known as RIM, is preparing to open an aftersales service center in Indonesia after the Government halted the issue of licenses for the company's new devices. It's a logical step for RIM to secure its "magic business" in the world's fourth-most populous country.

The company, in an emailed statement, said it is "in the process of arranging for a RIM-authorized repair facility to be opened in Indonesia in the near term. This repair facility will expand RIM's existing aftersales service capabilities and support the growing sales of BlackBerry smartphones by RIM's partners in Indonesia".

Final Result

Jakarta - Indonesian President Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono won the country's July 8 presidential election with 60.8 per cent of the vote, the General Elections Commission said Friday.

Yudhoyono received nearly 74 million votes to win a second five-year term, the commission said on its website, reporting its final tally of the ballots.

His rivals, former president Megawati Sukarnoputri and Vice President Jusuf Kalla, had 26.8 per cent and 12.4 per cent of the votes, respectively, the commission said.

The results are consistent with predictions made by several pollsters hours after the polls.